A suggested change in our calendar…
Life, Shopping May 14th, 2007Consider doing away with certain holidays–say, perhaps Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Administrative Assistant’s Day? I know that change would sorely disappoint Hallmark, American Greetings, your local florist, and stores that sell men’s ties and/or golfballs; but think about it. What would our world look like?
For me, doing away with a particular day would remind me to rise to the occasion of treating my mom, my husband, any assistant I may have someday, with courtesy, kindness and respect on a daily basis. I would learn to connect with these people in a genuine, caring manner. I’d look into their eyes and say, “I love you,” “You are very special to me,” and “I respect you.” I’d demonstrate by my actions that the words I utter are real and verifiable.
Instead of finding the one “wow” bouquet to send my mom, I could send her a small violet plant (she loves African violets) from time to time or some English toffee (another of her favorite things). I could tell Michael that next few days look like excellent golfing weather and that I hope he plays a few rounds; I could take the assistant (tbd at the present time) to lunch just because.
Hmmm, maybe that’s not a bad idea—trading a day of artificial sweetness for a lifetime of grateful action. I just may be on to something!
3 Responses to “A suggested change in our calendar…”
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May 14th, 2007 at 10:10 pm
Call me sentimental because I am.On a personal note I particularly enjoy Mother’s& Father’s Day as both of my parents are deceased. On these special days I relive the past cherished events when mom and dad were physically present and realize just what a great childhood I had, So much for my maudlin-I’m a softie.
May 17th, 2007 at 3:57 pm
I am also sentimental but would prefer an african violet plant just for the fun of it. I think that every day is an opportunity to celebrate love and respect. I did send my mom a gift and she really enjoys it…more importantly I sent it with love.
I think our society goes too quickly with no eye contact and text messaging. These holidays can help us slow down and enjoy our time together.
XXOO
Kathy
May 18th, 2007 at 11:28 pm
Okay, you sentimental fools, I see your point. I, too, have some cherished memories and being together “enjoying” each other is a wonderful concept. My cherished memories and “enjoyment” time with our children seems to happen “ad lib” and not at fixed times. Well, that’s not entirely true…I do recall we all got along swimmingly, everyone pitched in and helped, no snide looks or loud sighs—that was on Passover, 2006.